We made it to our last destination in India by train (of course) for our friend's wedding extravaganza. I don't even know where to start... but WOW what an experience! An Indian wedding lasts about a week from the ring ceremony to the big wedding reception with events every day. We watched (and helped) the groom get rubbed down in a turmeric powder everyday. Went to the tailor/stores and got fitted for outfits. Met with the choreographer to learn our dance for the ladies sangeet. And took part in all of the different events. The ladies sangeet: this is the first big event of the wedding. The groom's family gathers in a humongous "garden" that has been decorated and set up with a stage, DJ, lights, buffet, flowers, etc. and all his close relatives have to perform a dance - yes we had to also! There is a buffet to feed the 400 people in attendance. Nikasi: this is the actual wedding ceremony. It starts in the afternoon by getting the groom ready - we all had to shampoo his hair (gross!)... There is then a small ceremony at the house before we get him set up on the horse. Then this is where it gets crazy - the parade commences. We first head to the temple walking down the street with a band surrounding the groom on his horse and dancing in the street. Then, we take cars/buses to where the big parade starts. This consists of an elephant leading the troops followed by 2 camels, 2 horses, a car trailing a generator, rolling lights that make an illuminated path for everyone to dance/walk and finally the horse carriage with the groom. We walked and danced parading down the street (freeway?) for maybe 4 hours and didn't get to the venue until almost 11PM. Once there, the bride's family greets the groom's guests by handing out money (for good luck) and we can finally enjoy some delicious food. The bride finally makes her entrance at midnight and the couple heads into a clam to then pop out into the sky with blowing flower petals over their heads (I'm not kidding). The actual wedding ceremony can finally begin - the couple will walk 7 times around a fire before they are pronounced husband and wife. This goes on until 3/4AM. This event had about 800 people. Reception and dinner: the final event of the week long extravaganza! It was very similar to a regular wedding reception with obviously a big touch of India. The venue was beyond gorgeous with flowers and candles everywhere, a waterfall, a big stage with a swan mural and enough food for over 1,500 people (no typo here). The bride and groom made their entrance in an illuminated cinderella carriage and sat on the stage the entire night while their guests would go up to give them presents and take photos with them. Of course there was a lot of dancing and eating! We are so grateful to Jatin and his entire family for hosting us this entire week and making us feel at home. This was an unforgettable experience that we will forever cherish.
This completes our time in India and we are off to Sri Lanka tomorrow for 3 weeks!
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Udaipur - city of lakes. We reached Udaipur by bus in 5 hours with a little pit stop due to a flat tire. Our hotel was beyond beautiful facing lake Pichola with a great restaurant on the rooftop where we had breakfast every morning. Other than being a destination for honeymooners (so romantic!) the city is so clean and peaceful compared to the rest of India. People were charming and helpful for once. We visited palaces, went on walks, fished with some locals and saw a crazy "folk dance" show, which I now regret not having pictures/videos of.
Scotty became BFF with the hotel owner's dog, Milo, and even went on a scooter ride with him. Our last city in India coming next! Another flight in the books and we made it to a new city. Now this one was completely different from all the others we've visited in India. It was so majestic, people were nice and somewhat calmer if that's even possible?!
We stayed at a heritage hotel - a used to be summer house 10min outside the city for the then Maharaja. Every building here had a cool rooftop. We visited the massive fort overlooking Jodhpur, got lost in the tiny streets of the blue city, saw more temples, walked through the beautiful markets and of course ate some delicious food. We left Goa at 6:30AM by train... yep we decided to take an 11 hour train ride to Mumbai. It actually was not bad at all! We booked first class tickets, which just means you get actual seats, assigned and in an A/C car (although the A/C might not always work). It stops a lot and every time it does you have some different vendors coming onboard to sell you food & drinks (chai tea, waters, bananas, bread, and some indian treats I don't know the name of). Mumbai is a very big city mostly oriented around business. We only spent 2 days here since it was the only way to get to our next destination - Jodhpur.
There are 2 cool neighborhoods: 1. Colaba: very colonial looking with shopping and the iconic Gateway of India 2. Bandra: trendy area by the beach with a big Bollywood influence
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